Hi
I have a 6 month old son by my ex partner. We where together very briefly (about a month) then we broke up as he moved to America for a temp job, I then found out I was pregnant.
He's seen my son once when he came back to visit his mum but he's never really been interested. He will call occasionally but about it really. He has now told me he is moving home next month and has been doing some thinking and really wants to be an active part in his sons life and try his hardest.
When he was last in the uk he came over to see his son then we had dinner and chatted (didn't have sex there's no feelings in that respect) he was telling me really disgusting things about how he had just found out he had clamidia and said that he once slept with 4 girls on the same day with out washing in between! He then pulled out his phone and tried to show me two videos of girls naked in his room!! He also told me how he was "surprised" I got pregnant as he goes unprotected with loads of other girls and has never got any pregnant!!!
It's just really disgusted me and I don't want my son having that attitude. I have said to him and he thinks I'm making a big deal out of it and that his sex life doesn't effect how good of a father he can be
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Is it fair to refuse contact for this reason alone?
Amie197918 · 16/08/2016 16:22
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