Would you rather have a life of a really nice house (mortgage paid off), two happy dc (9 and 11), enough income that you don't have to work, everything provided for, dh in a good job, dh is good with dc and is with them all weekend and family and friends around i.e. a great lifestyle
BUT a marriage that doesn't work and gone years beyond getting anything back, only discuss the dc, do most things separately, separate bedrooms for 5 years, no affection and often tension??? Dh could be having an affair for all I know.
OR to leave dh, move to smaller houses, get a mortgage again (I don't work and don't know what I could do - no qualifications) and dc go between parents, lose his side of the family and my lifestyle and no one to look after dc, they then don't see their father daily?
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Which life would you rather have?
MClass · 24/05/2016 19:02
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