Friend split with her husband a couple of years ago, initial split instigated by him. They're not divorced, see each other almost daily as he comes round to cook for their DC (16, doing GCSEs) and do housework/house maintenance, garden upkeep, clean car etc. He has told her many times he made a mistake, and would like to get properly back together, go to counselling to work out the issues they had previously etc. She's not said no to him, however she tells us she has no intention of getting back with him.
This is at least in part because she is involved on an on-off basis with 2 ex partners (from before she married her husband), who are themselves married/ in a ltr. She sees them really only when she wants them to do something - one is a builder and is doing a load of work for her for free. Another lives locally, so she phones him for a lift from the station, home from the pub or whatever, and he always obliges, indeed they all do. She's recently started dating someone else and is already planning (he works in a garage) how he's going to repair her car for her, get a good deal on her next car etc....
She said men just cant do enough for her, because they all fall in love with/ become obsessed with her. She will often comment if we're in a bar that men are looking at her (I've/we've - when other friends are there - not noticed this).
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Friend's attitude/ behaviour...how would this sit with you?
balayage · 21/05/2016 09:41
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