If someone tells you they don't want to see you any more, what is the best way of winning them back?
These are the ones I thought of:
- act cool as if you don't care
- give a little goodbye speech
- say something about how wonderful they are/declare undying love
- say how upset/heartbroken you are
- say something which shows you are leaving the door open
- act gutted/angry
- accidentally on purpose bump in to them somewhere looking fab
- tell them you are seeing someone else
- tell them you won't let them go without a fight
- act friendly and send them the odd text as if you are still interested in their life
- leave it.
Note: I am intending to do nothing, just wondering.
The only two that have worked for me in the past are act as if I don't care and start seeing someone else.
What about you?
Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? I've been dumped and dumped people, as have most people, its best just to let them go and move on. The ones I've dumped couldn't do anything to 'win me back' as I didn't want to have a relationship with them any more. But the worst thing you can do is say you won't let them go without a fight/declare undying love imo. I suppose if the dumper was unsure then doing nothing or sending the very odd text might keep the door open- but you'd still end up with someone's half hearted interest.