Am I being unreasonable? Since separating from my DP after 20 years together we have become really good friends. I love him but not as a lover and he loves me. I had to go to hospital last week for some tests and asked him if he would come and sit with me as my BF was out of the country. My XDP came the hospital pater that evening and took me back to my house. We had quite a few drinks and then he left. This has caused an issue with my XDP's GF and it seems that they have split up over him coming to get me from the hospital
My BF had guessed how I had got home from the hospital and I told him that my XDP had only stayed for half an hour for a glass of wine after dropping me off.
My BF seems to becoming more jealous of my relationship with my XDP. He says that he does not understand the relationship I have with him as it was me that ended the relationship due to mental/ alcohol and other issues with my XDP.
He says that whilst he cannot understand the relationship he says he trusts me and will find a way to accept it. He also says that this does not mean that he likes the situation and it makes him feel very uncomfortable. He has also said that he will not prevent me from continuing my relationship with my XDP. My BF also knows that I speak to my XDP via texts many times during the day which is just general chit chat
Am I being unfair or unreasonable to my BF?
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New BF jealous of relationship I have with xDP
Motherofeight · 16/03/2016 00:17
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