Been married for 14 years but with my husband for 25 years altogether. We've been through lots - both his parents dying, depression, redundancy, financial nail-biting and more. Just average crap, I suppose but we've always muddled through, had a laugh and enjoyed life together.
So, the last two years have been tough and we haven't been getting on so well. It's been up and down but I'm peri-menopausal and I thought it was mostly in my head. He never seemed to be very kind to me anymore.
Anyway on Friday my DH said our marriage is over. He can't stand me anymore - I'm negative and constantly having a go at him. He has no feelings for me. Since then, I've been distraught, just shocked and numb. His reaction is to give me filthy looks and be angry with my hysterical reaction. But I don't understand why he's so angry with me? How did he expect me to react.
I love him so I can't help it and my poor kids - I'm scared for them and how they'll feel and I'm so sad that I've failed... Sorry, this is just a ramble - I don't know how to start telling people. I need to though but it seems so impossible to know where to begin.
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Why is he angry with me - sad marriage breakup
Biddyfromthebog · 15/02/2016 20:58
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