It's been a while since I've been on here but could really do with the no nonsense honesty from the mnetters
So here goes:
Been together 19 months
Met his kids once (which tipped his ex into a rage and subsequently ended our relationship for a short time)
Still not divorced (after 2 1/2 years)
Massive debt still not being dealt with
I've paid for 2 holidays which he pays me back £100 per month for however he will happily pay for his rugby tours, Xmas presents etc
Bought me one present at Xmas
that he moaned about, plus some horrendous underwear that I asked him to return
Last time we went out he said 'I'd forgotten how pretty you are when you do your make up'
Has no relationship with his alcoholic father or his sister
States he has a difficult relationship with his mother but visits her weekly
Gets a bit sulky if I have other plans on the days he has free to see me (which is only work nights, nights where he doesn't get a lie in, or when he's not with his children'
After saying he loves me for the last year he recently declared that he just says it and doesn't think he's capable of love and is 'dead inside'
Positives:
Nice to my dcs
Does man jobs
Above average sex
Go on ladies give it to me straight
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MozzchopsThirty · 14/02/2016 20:38
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