Long story short - we have a toddler and 6 week old baby. Husband has form for going out after work whenever he fancies leaving me to carry the can at home. He did it again this week ( I had a thread about it), then since I was angry at him decided he would go out all night Thursday too. So 3 days on my own struggling with a baby who screams all day and a toddler with no help or break.
Have asked him to leave and told him I can't put up with this crap any longer. We had the same thing before baby was born and he cried and begged for another chance which has stupidely gave him. He is trying the same now but I'm refusing to give in. He feels I shouldn't throw our marriage away over him going out.
Anyway today is his birthday. Do I acknowledge it or just ignore it!? I've no idea how to act. I'm being amicable but don't want to just back down and let him think he's got away with it yet again. I have small gifts from the children and a card. No card from me and his present from me is due for collection this afternoon.
How should I handle this!?
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Would you acknowledge your husbands birthday in these circumstances?
TiredMummy2015 · 16/01/2016 07:58
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