I'm getting a regular on this site now ?? always asking for help
I wish I'd have found you sooner and maybe I'd not be a skinny shrivelled woman with all the stress I have endured over last 14 months and 9 court cases later
I would love everyone's opinion on this matter good or bad please !
I really want to use my maiden name again, I still use my husbands name because of my son .
I sat and explained this to my DS and he was really upset
I explained that mums have one name and dads have another then you came along and had daddies name .
I said what about having both our names and he thought it was a great idea
I asked my husband he as expected said fk off !!
, our DS will have a double barrelled surname with my name being the middle name . So really I'm not changing his identity I'm just making him feel secure and loved. Obv his feelings are the most important l
I explained this to Cafcass and they are backing my request. They called me and asked why and understood I believe .i
It's in their report saying they agree with my reason and its to be proposed at court at end of month along with proposed unsupervised contact l
Has anyone else succeeded in doing this ?
Thank you for you time and I appreciate so many people's opinions x
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Changing my sons name have you had experience against fathers will
Gladiator16 · 11/10/2015 19:59
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