Am in a state of shock. My H has had a female friend. They are involved in local amdram group. I've recently had a few suspicions that there was more to this than simply friendship. He usually isn't so secretive with his phone but lately hasn't let it out of his site. So Sunday morning I asked him what if anything was going on and he admitted that he has confided in her and that she is very understanding of our problems(!) He denied an affair and showed me his phone. He had deleted all her recent texts. Later on I remembered he likes to use whatsapp and surprise surprise lots of photos of herself sent to him along with hearts at the ends of the messages. I confronted him and he has denied that they are having an affair however they have apparently discussed that if things don't work out in the marriages they will give it a go. I am devastated. I can't stop crying but am trying to act as normal as possible in front of my daughters. ( nearly 14 & nearly 12)
I had to go to work today and present a PowerPoint. Luckily I have very understanding colleagues who cut me a lot of slack and are very supportive. I can hardly believe I am writing this and I'm not sure what to do. He has said today that if I had been a better wife then it wouldn't have happened. It feels like the end of the world.
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My life appears to have turned into an episode of Eastenders
sarsiem · 18/05/2015 23:14
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