Not an affair situation as such, but complicated.
I have been seeing someone, who I have known as a friend for a long time, casually for a while and completely non-committal. Long story short he was seeing someone else before me and ended up getting hurt.
We were falling for each other and now he isn't because he is still hurting. They are still friends, although she has moved on with someone else.
I have some serious feelings for this guy. I'd love nothing more than for him to forget her and focus on me (and for what its worth I know he still feels something to some extent - oh the ways I've tried to figure out how to make those feelings continue growing).
I am happy to be there for him as a friend and have done really well so far with being impartial and want that to continue.
I just want to make him see me and not continue being in her shadow, but it isn't going to happen. I don't want to compete for him, if only to keep hold of SOME dignity.
Someone give me a slap and hand me a grip. Tell me what to do so I don't get hurt too.
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Help prevent me from doing the "pick me" dance
LittIeSongbird · 20/04/2015 14:13
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