Am just amazed at the utter cheek of the man. He has spent the last 4 years not paying for anything while he lay on the sofa built his business.
We split 8 weeks ago & he has not moved out because he is a stubborn bastard had no where to go & couldn't afford it. He has now been accepted to rent a house & just needs to go & sign the tenancy. I found this out by being sneaky & he doesn't know that I know. So I asked him earlier if he has heard about the house & he said no!! Blatant lie. I don't want to force the issue because he will dig his heels in & I'm worried about what he'll do just to spite me.
When I went to see a solicitor she said we should separate our finances so I stopped paying his credit card which he had decided should be £200 pm!! The other day he announces that he is not paying it all this month because I have used it in the past. I pointed out that the reason I had used it was when we needed food or petrol & he was not providing. He said he can't move out & pay the credit card. The £200 is not the minimum amount & it is in his name. I am not paying his damn credit card.
A few weeks ago I changed the wifi password & he accused me of trying to sabotage his business because he could use his computer at home. So I gave him the password. I have 2 wifis, a standard one which is quite slow & a fibre one that is fast but has limited download allowance & is expensive but paid for through my business for work. I gave him password to the slow one. So tonight he has asked me for the password to the fast wifi. I said no you already have access to the other one, he was not happy.
He is living here for free but seems to feel that he is entitled to whatever he demands. Enough already, get the fuck out of my house & go & find out what the real world is like.
Sorry, rant over. It is like living with a spoilt brat.
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Why does he feel so entitled??
Balders74 · 07/03/2015 00:30
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