I don't know where to start. I have been with my DP for 9 years. We have a 2 yo DD together, and due to get married later this year.
I have worked part time since having DD and have always supported DP in his career, has a very good job, but long hours and 6 days a week most of the time. By his own admission he wouldn't be where he was without me.
Everything was fine until around 6 weeks ago when he decided to break it to me that he didn't feel the same about me, grown apart etc usual speech. I was devestated, for me, our family and most of all our DD, how could he do this to her? Denying her of a family, brothers sisters etc. The few people we told were shocked as we have always got on great, supportive, rarely bickered etc.
After a week or so, he told me he wasn't sure he made the right decision and wanted to try again. After long talks I agreed as I desperately want us to be together. I love him.
Everything has been fine since then, until a few days ago when he got in from work and it was like he switched off. Minimum conversations. Barely getting a kiss when one of us leaves the house.
I have No one to speak to, all out friends are mutual, I don't want people to think bad of him, he is still my DD's dad at the end of the day.
I desperately want this to work, this is my life. I'm too scared to say anything as I don't want him to leave me.
Thanks for reading if you've got this far.
Don't really know what replies I want. I just needed to say it.
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Please help me. I'm so alone and don't know what to do.
EveryDayTheSame · 22/02/2015 07:58
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