My dh is gorgeous and sexy and I truly do fancy him and want to be intimate, but we have two small dc (22 months and six weeks) and I'm finding it hard to feel sexy.
He doesn't understand why I don't initiate sex at the minute, and I've tried explaining to him that I find it hard to separate 'mummy' me from 'me' me. Ds2 is only six weeks and is ebf, so is literally attached to me at all times and it's hard feeling sexy when your shattered with leaky boobs and maternity bras!
He is a lovely man, and in no way pressures me to have sex, but he wants me to initiate it more. I thought we were doing really well managing to do it a few times since ds2 arrived, but tonight he has said he feels I don't fancy him as I never just grab him for a quick snog or anything, even if it's not leading to sex.
I hate the thought that he feels I don't want him, just finding it hard to get him to understand that our sex life will come back, it's just the furthest thing from my mind at the minute. Hope this makes sense!
Any advise?
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Convincing dh i still fancy him.
Lilmisssunshine7 · 19/10/2014 20:06
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