This will be a rambling disjointed post due to furiousness!
H and I moved into separate houses 11 months ago, due to awful arguments affecting the DC, with the hope of reconciliation and a load of marriage counselling. He said he wasn't going to see anyone else but I could if I needed to sort my head out. I haven't dated or been with anyone in this time.
FF to this weekend, H wanted to borrow my car, he picked the kids up and I told him my weekend plans, we had tickets to an ice hockey match and I needed the car back at 5. He didn't turn answered my text with "piss off we're out". Arse hole.
DC came home the next day, I asked what they did on Saturday and DS told me he wasn't allowed to say! Came out that they spent the day with daddy's friend. A bit upset that he'd told them to lie to me, I confronted him. He told me not to be so stupid, that she's their babysitter. DC told me they spent the day together and then she spent the night! H told me that her boyfriend picked her up after dinner. He's since changed his story and now she came back at 10pm with her boyfriend, they had a few beers crashed on the floor and they both left before the kids got up. DC told me she was there for breakfast and they spent yesterday together too. H told me that they bumped into each other in a cafe,whilst she waited for her boyfriend so he invited her around for dinner - she then ditched her boyfriend for dinner with my H and DC
I am beyond furious that he didn't tell me about their new mum babysitter!
He's lying isn't he? Why is he lying? I've told him if he wants to move on then he has my blessing but I'd rather have had some warning that he was no longer interested in saving the marriage and before he introduced someone to the DC.
He's 40, he has a daughter one year younger than her.
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Husband fucking a 20 year old, introduced her to DC!
StaringBlankly · 01/09/2014 17:03
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