Does anyone in a long term relationship, have a subject or subjects that are sensitive for some reason... that when they get raised by either party, it all goes tits up, WW3, sulking and never gets resolved?
What do you do then? This happens in my relationship every couple of months and I feel like I never want to mention the issues ever again for the sake of our relationship. BUT, then... that itself seems to create a distance between us. So it's like either we have distance cos I think my dp is not there for me and I cannot talk to him or I take a risk and discuss it with him and it's WW3. How can I deal with poor conflict resolution? Or do I just say nothing and vent on Mumsnet...?
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Repetitive arguments that never get resolved?
shey02 · 08/05/2014 23:17
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