I've namechanged, but only jigged a couple of letters around so you should be able recognise me.
I've not long left a crap relationship myself, I have 2 children. I have met someone else...
We met about a month ago, exchanged lots of texts, meet up usually every other day, have had sex a few times. When we're together I literally can't breathe, he gives me butterflies and I've had that with anyone before, here's where the problem lyes...
He only broke up with his ex a day before we met, he also has 2 young dc (obviously not a problem). Everytime we are together he gets call after call from his ex, usually abuse. He has his own place but he says ex won't let him have his dc so he goes to hers after work and stays the night everytime which I find bizarre, apparently she doesn't let him leave. He doesn't communicate with me while he's there. I've suggested he gets solicitor advice if she won't allow him to have his own dc out of her sight.
Anyway, the point is I'm feeling used, I don't really know where I stand with him, he says he wants me but I'm not so sure. I'm feeling like knocking the whole thing on the head before it gets any further. What do you think?
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To stop seeing this man...(red flags?)
HandN · 06/02/2014 06:18
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