Hi, I'm new to this so hope I don't go on too much but basically I found out my husband had an 18 month affair with a work colleague, when she messaged me on FB 9 months after it ended! It's now over a year since I found out and things have been difficult but my HB is trying his hardest to make things up to me! The OW gave me the name of another girl she was sure he had also had a relationship with and recently I contacted her as it was playing on my mind! Sure enough she confirmed they had sex a few times but not really a full affair. This seems to be around the same time things started with the OW!
Both said they would not be surprised if there were more and I am going mad wondering if I should try and find out or accept that thing's are better in our marriage recently and he has since changed his job and is not away so much.
We have been married 20 years ( happily, I thought!) and have a 14 year old DS.
I still love him and just want my life back!! Has anyone else managed to continue their marriage after so much deceit?
My DH is treating me very well and is very remorseful for his behaviour.
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Can I forgive affairs?
golfwidow53 · 14/01/2014 23:08
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