I'm a single mum (with 3kids) and about 2 months ago a meet a guy (in a bar - cliche).
Anyway we have been on a 6-7 dates. On paper he is a really nice guy, he's handsome, has a good job, nice house, is close to his family, is always nice (ie opens doors, picks me up, pays for dinner etc).
But , i don't know how to explain it, i just feel he's not any more nice to me than he is to anyone else. For example, when we go out one of the first things he always says is that I look nice/great/lovely. But i just can't help thinking he says the same to his gran if he had to pick her up to take her shopping (ie, 'hi gran, you look nice today, i like your scarf').
Also, not that I really want to meet his family but last weekend I didn't see him as his mum was having a party on the Saturday night (which is really the only night the kids dad takes them) and he never asked me to come along.
I think I'm not really looking for a new lifelong partner but just feel he's not that enthusiastic about me.
He's just not that I'm me, right? Time to move on?
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I should dump him, shouldn't I?
spookySwitched · 28/10/2013 11:36
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