Me and dh have been married 4years.
Was dating for2 before getting married.
Sorry tmi but want the full story to come across clear
He used to be a lil controlling over money as yes I know id spend it on shit we didn't need and we are trying to save for a deposit on a house. Now days hes not half as bad from before.
The other night I was tired not up for sex at all (dc1 is2months old) but thought hes not gona leave me alone until hes cum so just get on with it. What he normally does is spoon and then pulls both our underwear down then cums in arse which I havr said on a few occasions I dont like but hes not taken too much notice. What he did that night was 1stly put a finger up bum which didnt mind but did tell him im a lil sore from behind. He managed to get 1 in bum and 1 upfront as we were both enjoying ourselves.
We then moved to the other room and he said lets go for anal first (again don't mind but I was sore that night) as he 1st thrusted I moved away and was in tears but tried to stop myself from crying. I did think he would of stopped. I told hom it hurt and not your average pain from anal. He carried on an I just stayed still.
I then faked it as he was on top as I didn't know what to do or say.
Hes not mentioned it since nor have I but I don't know what to feel about the situation.
He should of stopped but should I havr done moreto make him?
Im a lil hurt to also see that while hes on ipad he deletes the history most of the time. I've been on the website data and theres nothing sinister (you have to delete that from the settings not of safari)
Ive asked him what is he doing thay he doesn't want me to see and he just laughed and left me unanswered.
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need to write what I feel sorry tmi
ohlalala13 · 13/09/2013 10:15
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