My DH hates my DM. He says she hates him. I don't think it's the case. He says she undermines him as a father. I have seen no evidence. He barely tolerates her and hardly speaks to her. It creates an atmosphere and I dislike it intensely. She lives a while away so he doesn't see her much.
On the other side, I am very good to his parents. I entertain them regularly, make them lunch, bite my tongue and say nothing when they visit for six hours and don't lift a finger apart from pissing off DC and boring me to tears. I think being polite is important. So I say nothing and smile.
DH doesn't bother hiding his feelings. He's even made DM cry before with his coldness.
I wonder if I can continue this relationship if he has such negative feelings towards my DM. Otherwise he's alright. A bit lazy and passive aggressive but not the worst.
Just a WWYD?
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