I have started dating a lovely man; he likes me and I like him ; as a person. He is very attractive and I do find him attractive BUT I do not get that despearte to rip his clothes off, butterflies feeling that I feel I should be getting. We hold hands and hug and there is a vibe. Today he kissed my neck but we were in public. When we said gooodbye I went for a snog but it was not reciprocated. There is a spark but I don't know if it's enough.
I have a few doubts; first I have a crush on someone at work who is a bad idea and not interested but I still have this crush as I see him all the time, second my date lives far away and we both feel it is an issue but otherwise he's a lovely, lovely man. Am I being shallow in thinking there should be that wanting to rip each other's clothes off feeling going on?
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