Nc for this. I have been with my h for 5.5 years & married for around 18 months.
I have gradually become completely isolated & now don't see friends. My family are a bit more insistent however. Since we met his behaviour has been quite odd I suppose. He is a compulsive liar,since marrying I realise there is not the background he always claimed. He has 2 sons he hasn't any contact with,no friends,no family. Everything he promises never materialises. He is incapable of empathy. When I had a mc he hung up the phone,when I told him I was pregnant,he suggested a termination. I think he was amazed I refused. The whole of my pg he was extremely erratic & hurtful. I left in the end but he gave me the big sorry sob story & promised to change. He wanted to be a good dad blah blah
My mum has been in hospital recently & has been rushed back in tonight. He didn't answer the home phone when I was in the bath (never answers it which drives me mad) & when I got out I saw missed calls & then found out from my dsis about mum. I sat sobbing & he ignored me & sat watching tv as if I didn't exist. Not that I was annoying,simply as if I actually wasn't there. When I got really angry he said 'phone your family,I can't do anything' & put on earphones. He always acts like nothing has happened whenever I actually need him or ask anything of him.
He always talks me round. I don't love him,I swing between finding him ok & wanting him to drop dead. I don't even recognise myself :(
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I don't know how to get out of this
Handholdingplease · 04/02/2012 23:03
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