So, today, I went on his lap top to copy some photos from Christmas.
As I opened the photos file- I find a bunch of photos of very old woman in her underwear and then photos of him in suit and then with trousers down....
2 years ago, I found an email that was a photo of his d"£" to the same woman. At that time he blamed it on his friend who was staying with us as his wife had left him.
So I'm waiting for him to come home from work to discuss further.
We have a beautiful 3 month old son. But, he has been lying to me for 2 years. Its the same woman. Today on phone confrontation- "she keeps pestering me". WTF!!!
I feel many many things- he was basically a cocaine addict when I met him and has turned his life around or so I thought...
What to do- kick him to kingdom come?? But we have a baby... I know if we split, I won't want him to have any unsupervised contact as I'm pretty sure he will degenerate into a using mess again.....
I don't really have any RL people to talk to as they all will be a lot "told you so" and quite rightly...
Will have to go back to work early to pay the lone parent bills.
My parents (and his) will be devastated..
Will I ever trust him again??
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witch6 · 26/01/2011 23:19
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