Personal sex question but want to see if it is biologically the same for others and what can be done

[sorrento56]

Just before DH is about to come I really feel like I will as well, ie I feel a different sensation from his penis and would come if he reacted like that for a bit longer. At that point though he can't stop and if I asked him too and then carried on the feelings are gone from me.

[Malificence]

It's presumably the pulsing of his penis just before he ejaculates that sets you off, I only really feel it strongly when I'm on top and it can easily set me off again.
If the base of his penis is in contact with your clitoris when he comes then it's the extra stimulation that's getting you, if you flutter your pc muscles then it might tip you over more quickly - a vibrator could give you a similar feeling, especially a pulsing one.

[sorrento56]

Yes, that is what it feels like, a pulsing.

[BitOfFun]

Yeah, it's good, that bit, isn't it?

[Malificence]

Oh yes, very good. I'm still floating after a damn good seeing to last night.

I've had a thought, a vibrating cock ring might be just the ticket for you. A proper one though, none of your durex disposable rubbish.

[sorrento56]

Actually I bought the disposable one the other week and it was all right but nothing amazing.

[Malificence]

There is a new Tracey cox bullet out that looks really good.

[sorrento56]

[piratecat]

when i used to have sex, many moons ago. i used to get so annoyed with my dh for not being able to hold back lol.

that feeling, tho, if he stops, on command when you feel it, then starts again, then stops ... will tip you over eventually. If not a little stimulation of your clitoris, but not too much ( you could do it yourself) will help you find that feeling.

it only used to work for me doggy style tho, it's different for everyone. amazing really isn't it.

[BitOfFun]

Yes, the Squeeze Technique, if you can be bothered can help there.

Personally, I just prefer that he waits for me, then does the pulsey thing while I am mid-O. Everyone happy. Gosh, this is all very specific for a Saturday afternoon

[sorrento56]

I just sent DH a link to one of the vibrating ones and he said - isn't that the one we have got?

[sorrento56]

Sorry BOF .

Maybe this is why he insists I go first? But I want to orgasm from him . Happened once...

[piratecat]

get him to rotate his hips more, do a wiggle, can do wonders!!

[stubbornhubby]

Hmm, I would like to know more about this zone

[BitOfFun]

It's just the bit where the man's widger goes all throbby at the end of proceedings- feels really nice. Maybe there is a female equivalent of kind of pulsating strongly during orgasm? I imagine that would feel good to a man.

[BitOfFun]

I guess though that things are a bit involuntary and too far gone at that point for either party to be able to control or extend things.

[AmpleBosom]

I'm loving the word widger ..... as you were

[AllSheepareWhite]

Maybe he could do exercises you know like the fanjo exercises we do to keep things right down there after a baby, except he has to use the muscles that stop him peeing to make it 'jump'. He might be able to use those same muscles to hold himself back until you are ready. He can practice by himself first then you can have fun trying it out together

[Honeydragon]

I find if I have messed around on top and got mine, that if we then switch to doggy then dh's "widger pulse" (thanks BoF) can set me off all over again. I think because it is a different kind of orgasm to the first.

[BitOfFun]

Oh, good popping! You are quite right- it can set you off all over again, but a bit differently. I am coming over all peculiar now...

[FallingWithStyle]

Yes, definitely a different sensation. Cant beat a nice bit of throb.

Also find that my coming (arf! sounds rather regal) will make him come too.

[FallingWithStyle]

My first sex thread too I think - joining in just to tut and adjusy my bosom doesn't count right?

I'm worried now that the nice lady on the Toy Story sticker swap thread wont want my stickers any more. Even though the the toy story stickers and my orgasms are very much unrelated.

[2010Dad]

The final few seconds "throbbing" do seem to have an effect on my DW's pleasure, although it could just be her enjoying my final moments of pleasure - I should ask her!

Regardless, some specific directional thrusting at any point during the act should surely provide a similar effect

Experiment!

[IfGraceAsks]

WNAT TO KNOW HOW TO FLUTTER! I can only squeeze and pulse.

[IfGraceAsks]

"I want", obviously. I'm not drunk, my browser's playing up

[TDaDa]

Good news is that as man gets older he should have more control?