Hi everyone,
long time lurker, after the weekend I've just had I decided to join.
Any words of wisdom much appreciated.
Sooo, I have a really good friend (bloke) from my university days - more then 20 years ago.
We have kept in touch over the years, but he lives overseas now and has done for more than 10 years. We are both married more than 10 years, with kids.
History is that there was nothing other than good friends, ever. We have met up about every other year or so, over the past 20 years, whenever he comes home to visit his family that still live in this country.
Soooo, this weekend we (with others) went on a reunion in our University town, away from my home town.
The usual excuse, we got drunk and ended up together. Both of us have been faithful to husband/wife before now, so no history of cheating on either side.
What I want other people's input on is, is this the end of our friendship now? We are in infrequent contact through the year, maybe chat on the phone once a year, that's all.
We have spoken and emailed since the weekend and it all seems "normal" between us.
Neither of us are unhappy in our marriages (but does this now mean that we must have been?) and have no desire to throw what we have with our partners away, for what was one night.
Come and throw rotten eggs at me for being such a total b*tch, I know....I'm ready for it.
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