Its prob me im prob weird or something, but i totally cant take it when WH (wanker H) checks out other girls or watches sex on tv. I get really really really annoyed so much that i dont wanna talk to him i dont wanna look at him i dont even wanna sleep with him. We do have trust issues he doesnt trust me AT ALL ie cant even take the bins out on bin day incase i am chatting up the neighbours, i think hes so insecure cz his last wife cheated on him and cz im a lot younger than him?? ( Id NEVER be unfaithful, id sooner end the relationship. )
Back to the main point if i am so untrust worthy and i have live according to his trust issues (basically imprison myself incase i start humping the first bloke i see) then y is he allowed to be hypocritical and check out girls etc? Things he shouts at me for (i sound like a teenager) he does himself! Its so annoying it drives me crazy, he goes through my phones/ emails etc yet his own have a string of girls names who he says he doesnt have contact with (in which case y is he keepin them)??? Iv had enough. But i cant leave him.
Just wanted to rant i suppose feel like crap, God MN is so good can let off steam!!!!!!
Another thing wanted to rant abt (mite aswel do it all at once) is that due to our ongoing 5yr issues i dont want to sleep with him, even if im in the mood i stop myself cz i know our relationship is never gonna change. For example, As hes an insomniac he stays awake all night 'watching tv' hes slept next to me in the same bed abt 5 times in the last 2 yrs. N since the first wk of marriage he stays downstairs all night cz he cant sleep. When he wants sex hel roll on me for ten mins and then gets up and goes back to his tv. Aaaaaarrrrrggggghhhhhhhhh
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does this reeeaaaaaalllllyyyy annoy other ppl too????
sotiredcantthink · 05/08/2010 00:58
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