DD is only a few weeks old but this is already starting to get on mine and DH's nerves!!
I knew that when we had children you have to develop a thick skin but it's so relentless when we see the PIL. It feels like we're defending every parenting decision we make for the whole time they're here and it feels exhausting and unnecessary. We're fairly relaxed parents so it's not that we're taking their comments to heart, it's just so bloody irritating being questioned over every little thing, and as she's so small still I fear that it'll get worse as she gets older!
For instance - we're constantly criticised for over feeding her, rushing to console her too much, worrying too much, changing her nappy when we should just leave her, covering her pram in the sun etc etc. I completely appreciate that they did it differently (fair enough) but still they go on and on - every time we pick a bottle up to feed her, for instance, they start with - "surely you're not feeding her again", "she can't possibly be hungry", etc etc
The jokey brush it aside comment doesn't seem to work, I've tried ignoring but they still continue. DH has said several times that we're just doing our best but they still continue.
Would be good to hear others' experiences/tips!
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how do you deal with PIL constant criticism?
happygilmore · 27/07/2010 14:22
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