We've been together since I was 19 and I'm 34 now. We have 2 children. We have a lot of problems and issues around sex that we are trying to sort out (basically we've not had regular sex for years, bar the times we did it for me to get pg). He is the only man I have had sex with, he's a had a few other partners. We both want to sort out this problem but I feel like it can't be done unless he knows that I've never had an orgasm with him. I faked it for the first few years we were having sex and then our sex life fizzled out anyway . I know I should never have faked it in th first place but I was young and inexperienced and also inhibited. We are talking about it all at the moment and both want to make a concerted effort to get back on track. Can anyone give me some advice?
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How do I tell dh I have never had an orgasm with him?
howdoitellhim · 11/07/2010 21:14
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