Can someone help please as i am confused about what to do!
We've just come back to live in the UK and DS1 (age 7) is going to school for the first time in his life. The problem is that I have the feeling that teacher isn't helping him. e.g. he lost a piece school kit (his school badge) 10 days ago and she keeps telling him "I'm busy, speak to me later" everytime he asks her to tell him what to do about it. That's twice a day for several days running.
Then she spoke to me to say his writing is too slow. I think she's probably right. She says he needs to learn to go faster. I agree. But then there is silence and I get the impression that she sees it as my responsibility to work out how to fix this and she's discharged her duty by telling me about it.
We also spoke about his reading ability which is far in excess of the rest of his class. I told her that he'd read the last book in a hour and please could he have a new more difficult one? However, 8 days later he's still got the same book. No one has checked his reading or whether he understands it and my note in the reading record hasn't been read either.
Basically she takes the word "brisk" to the point where my son is intimidated by her and has to pluck up the courage to speak, only to brushed aside again.
I could give more examples, but that's the jist of it. So are my expectations too high or is the teacher not covering the minimum?
She looks about 26 so i don't think she can have much teaching experience. Maybe this is her first time ever settling a child into school, rather that just changing schools.
She seems like a reasonable person to me but she does seem a bit keen to prove her authority even with me. I'm thinking that either she is a poor teacher or she's just a bit inexperienced and lacks compassion or I am being unrealistic as she does have 24 other children to teach.
Does anyone have any advice? Really i just want my son to have a happy first experience of school and to be given an education.
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quinne · 01/10/2009 09:45
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