Firstly I'm on my iPhone so sorry for typos!
My DD and DS both go to a reasonably small primary school. We are just a normal, average family. No SN no social services involvement.
Last year I received a phone call from the head very concerned that DD had gone to school without any breakfast. I lay the table in the morning, they get breakfast themselves (cereal, fruit or yogurt). DD hadmt got herself any that day. I don't particularly monitor them as I'm usually getting myself and toddler ready (DD is 7). She didn't tell me she hadn't had any breakfast and went to school fine. Then I get a call at 10am from the school to inform me that DD had mentioned to a friend she was hungry the teacher overheard and she was questioned as to what she had eaten that day and then they fed her and phoned me to see why I hadn't fed her?! I kind of brushed it off and pretty much stand over DD and DS to make sure they eat every morning now!
Today I get pulled aside by the head as she wants to talk to me in private. In her words 'a number of staff have approached me today because they are concerned that DD looks quite grubby and disheveled, she also has dried food down her shirt, I wanted to make you aware and see if there is anything going on at home'
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? DD has lost 3 jumpers this term and didn't wear one today but had a vest on under her shirt. I came home from school and checked her shirt and other than some grub around the sleeves it is fine. It does have some old faded paint/ink stains but was fresh out of the machine! Clean trousers, clean socks, clean fitting shoes. Hair still tied back.
I'm starting to think this head has some kind of problem with me, I feel judged and like she is insinuating I am not looking after my children properly. I should also mention here that I am a school governor and she chose to grab me after a 3 hr full governors meeting.
Does this kind of thing sound normal to anyone else? I have seen numerous children with shoes falling off their feet, trainers as no shoes, track suit trousers instead of school trousers and I'm being hassled because DD has some faded stains on a slightly greeting school shirt?!
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pantone363 · 14/11/2012 00:34
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