Oooh hello absent ladies, lovely to hear fom you.

Fruitbat so sorry that things are still not great at home, chin up love and get your bext party shoes on and enjoy yourself xx p.s. Which Muilberry do you fancy ?

Nemo glad you are doing well, am impressed with you looking after another child !!

Hyena good luck with sleep tonight.

Panda lovely to see you my dear, where are you cycle-wise ? Any progress with getting some clomid ?

Nemo You're good to be taking care of another LO. I always seem to inherit other kids .
Fruit I really think you should try and speak to someone, with or without DL. It'd do you good to have someone listen to you and it would help you to get things sorted in your head. Really hope you feel brighter soon.
Giraffe I agree about the cake - also M&S biscuits. They have two boxes for £6 atm and they are divine!!!!! Have just been watching a DVD by Claire Bryam-Cook on BF and def need to take more care of latch on the right. Hope all goes to plan tomorrow. Lots of piccies, please.
Panda [waves]

Nothing to report here. We went to a 'Carry on Screaming' viewing on An Education this am at the cinema which was enjoyable. J still feeding lots. Took ages to settle last night but then managed four before feeding...I'm not wondering what was so stressful about L as a newborn. I was always afraid to let her cry but can almost sleep through J's.

Helo lovely ladies, am currently watching my friend's little boy so may be a short post if she back or he wakes!

Fruitbat so sorry to hear things so crap. No other word fopr it! Think we should def get something in the diary to meet up, when's good for you? Hope party on sat is just what you need xx

Hyena am so glad things going so well! Joe sounds like a poppet

Friend back now, gotta run but back later xx

Thanks for your sympathies girls I have so many issues at the moment I've lost count! I'm hoping I'll just get over it all, although DL is my main one so not sure how I'll get over that Probably in serious need of councilling but it's time and money isn't it.
Going to a party on Sat night with him and the boys, although not feeling up to it right now, maybe it'll give me a kick up the back side

Fruity Was only thinking of you the other day and assumed because you hadn't been on, things were still not great. Hope you are OK and we miss you.

Hyena Do not worry on the cake front. As far as I am concerned it is a daily requirement when breast feeding, so you haven't missed your opportunity. Glass of wine will do you the world of good (and get you REALLY drunk ), makes you feel normal I think. Glad that the feeding is going better and he's getting the hang of it. The first few days are a bit painful I think. Keep the Lanisoh to hand. More sleep too - lovely!

We are still living with the boy who thinks sleep is for wimps, although the last couple of nights a slight improvement. Trying to settle him sometimes without a feed as hoping he will then stop waking every 2 bloody hours.

Christening tomorrow, really looking forward to it, in that "God I hope we've done everything way".

hey hyena and fruity
fruity sorry the H is still bugging you (if that is the reason for the foul mood) hope you and the boys are ok
hyena good to see that J is feeding well and of your speedy weightloss

xx ei xx

I'm here three.
I'm having half a glass of wine - I haven't really felt like drinking but DP threw it at me .
Fruit You still having a hard time with the lodger? If you need to chat then you know where I am. x
Panda All work and no play.....How long until the clomid starts?
Hippo Have been less lazy on the latch today. He's feeding r the right is the left - totally pain free and the right is beginning to improve. I'm going to have a peek for a 15% off BM - there's some things I want to buy L for Christmas.

Things fine here. We managed two hours between feeds last night and am really hoping that tonight follows suit. Decided to weigh myself before. I'm 2lb away from pre-pregnancy weight. Took me bloody ages to slim down after L and this time I obviously haven't taken advantage enough and eaten enough cake !

I'm here too
Keep popping in from time to time but got nothing constructive to say my end as I've been in a foul mood for the last 3/4 weeks.

Hopefully will snap out of it soon.

Hyena little J is so absolutely gorgeous - and I don't say that lightly either as newborns are generally quite odd looking!

hi ladies
im here lurking as usual

hope all is well

nowt to report from me just work work work as usual
xx ei xx

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