Just wondering, for the SAHMs, how much your DP does, housework/childcare wise?
I am especially interested in those whose DPs have very demanding jobs, ie not just 9-5. My DP is a computer technician and currently working for 2 companies, one 9-5.30 and one after hours, weekends etc. He seems to work 6 days most weeks and comes home at about 7ish most days, though he can be home as late as 11 some nights.
In return for this (ie providing for the family) he expects me to do all the childcare, (though I thought we agreed childcare would be 50/50 when he is at home - he just says well you have done nothing all day) all the housework and the cooking. He only half cleans up after himself and expects me to finish that off too.
I know this is not acceptable (I feel he should be doing either half the childcare, half the housework or some of both, when he is home obviously!) but I'm finding it hard to establish what would be reasonable to expect from him. At the moment the bare minimum of housework is being done at all as it's the last thing I feel like doing when DS is asleep - I never get a break at any other time. I can do bits while he is awake but not concentrate on it as well IYSWIM.
Anyway just wanted an idea of what your DPs do
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SAHMs - how much does your DP do?
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CherryChoc · 07/02/2009 14:06
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