Hello
I am having a second baby in May by CS so will be in hospital 3-4 days (I live in Belgium and they say a lot of women stay in 7 days). I am starting to worry about leaving DH and his mom and dad with daughter who will then be 15 months old. We have two sets of stairs - ceramic type so pretty hard and pretty lethal. I have stairgates up but I am worried they won't use them and keep the doors closed etc.
I have been labelled 'anxious' (behind my back of course) my mother in law and she said when we visited last May that I seemed to spend a lot of time with the baby - my DH not pointing out that last May BH the weather was freezing and his father wouldn't put the heating on and the house was very cold - I was with the baby downstairs because it was too cold to put her upstairs to sleep!
The whole safety thing has been a real source of conflict between my DH and me - he has I think totally taken on board what his mother said (bit of a mouthpiece sometimes for them and agree with everything they say) and he is too relaxed about things (except for marks on the bathroom mirror which he can spot at 50 paces - how mad does that make him?).
I am already quite worried about leaving DD with them and got myself in a right tizz last night worrying about qhat could happen to her. I have had the nonsense from his father about how they brought up 3 children (his dad did nothing BTW) and what do I know.
I just need to let off some steam as I had quite a bad night's sleep worrying about it. Can't talk to DH as we have had rows about his mom and dad before.
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Worrying about going into hospital leaving DH and his parents to look after toddler
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Moop · 21/01/2009 06:05
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