First post, please be gentle :-)
With Christmas coming up I thought it would be an appropriate time to ask this question. Ive always told my daughter not to kiss people goodbye and just wave unless its very close relatives e.g Nanny and grampy ..
last year I took my DD who was then 3 to my MIL's family party and when it was time to leave my MIL asked my poor daughter to basically go round and kiss everyone goodbye (now a good 20 people , mostly strangers to my daughter may I add were puckering up for her). My poor daughter looked shy about this and I told her (quite loudly) to just give a wave as we had to be going. Well it was brought up about 3 weeks later (in jan) that my MIL thought I was rude in front of her family and I told her that I actually thought it was rude making my DD kiss people she didn't know ( I don't want her thinking she has to give someone a kiss because she is asked for one). Mil's response was a tut and a shake of the head followed by her mumbling that I was being silly.
We have another family party next week yay :-( and I intend to do the same and not force my daughter into giving kisses to people she doesn't know. Am I just being oversensitive (as it is extended family) or do any of you agree?
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Asking DC's to kiss people goodbye
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xStefx · 07/12/2016 14:24
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