DD spends part of every day crying for no reason that I can tell. It escalates up to raw-throated screaming, and the only thing I can do to stop it is VERY vigorous bouncing along with playing music which has a heavy beat. If I'm out there's virtually nothing I can do. Today she woke from sleeping in her pram when I was twenty minutes' walk from home and started absolutely screaming, though I'd fed her before I left. A nappy change made no difference. I managed to get her to go back to sleep in the baby carrier strapped to me, but only after a long period of full-on screaming, passers-by looking and commenting etc.
At the moment she seems to be a bit 'off' a lot of the time - she'll spend fifteen minutes or so looking at something, or cooing and smiling in response to me, which is absolutely lovely, but then the grizzling will start, and I dodge from thing to thing trying to find what she wants and not managing it. It's like her normal state is grizzling, and I'm just distracting her from it for a moment or so. She doesn't seem to need comfort from me, as she struggles and kicks when I pick her up, and only stops crying in response to bouncing and noise. It's getting me down, especially because I often end up feeling angry and frustrated, particularly when I'm out in public and I just can't do anything to help I don't want to be angry with her, she's only tiny and I know she's distressed for some reason. It's just that when she's screaming her lungs out in the street, I feel like there's a big neon arrow pointing at me saying 'Look! Look at this! Something going wrong over here!' I feel like a bad mother.
I'm pretty sure it's not colic, as she's very good after about 8pm and sleeps (bar feeds) from 11-6ish. Plus it doesn't come on after feeds. She's EBF and in the 75th centile for weight, doing just fine putting it on.
Is this normal? Are some babies just unsettled for a bit? Do they calm down? Could use some help
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