In the p&t groups DD (18mo) insists on playing with the exit door, she wont sit, is not intested in nursery rhymes and will scream if she is made to sit down with me, she screams when toys are put away, she constantly wants to go to the newborn babies in their car seats and screams when i tell her no and try and distract her (distaction doesnt work thou) I feel like tearing my hair out but ensure i stay calm all the time as i know she would probably pick up on this. She screamed to go into the painting room, when I get her overalls etc on she refused to play with anyting and had a major tantrum as all she wanted to play with was the actual door going into the room.....not the paint in side..... Or she will have a paddy at the baby gates near other exits.
I do get out with her every morning, as if we didnt i think i would go mad. I am always the mother at the back with the screaming child, I am 27 married and we have a lovely stable home life etc but i feel at groups i am constantly looked down on as though i cant cope with DD etc, she is VERY trying and i love her to bits, but in situations like this i just don't know how to deal with her. The leader of one of the new groups we have started, mentioned to me this week 'is it DD's 1st time in a group like this? Dont worry a pre-school group will be good for her where she will start to learn she has to sit and join in etc etc...' but its not her 1st time, its just how she acts in groups like this.
does it get any easier? Or maybe this is the harsh reality of being a mother of a toddler when they are constanly pushing boundaries? Sorry, bad day rant over.....
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hummingbird123 · 22/06/2006 12:40
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