I need a shoulder to cry on.I'm really struggling with DD2,she is 5 months & seems so unhappy all the time & unless she is eating or sleeping,is very unsettled & cries nearly all day.I know she would like more attention,but I have a two year old dd1 to cope with too,so can't sit & hold her for hours.She seems a very bright baby & is frantically trying to roll over & crawl,so she may be crying from boredom/frustration-I just don't know anymore.
She gets very tired & fights sleep like you wouldn't believe.I have stayed in in an attempt to get her to nap for more than half an hour,but it has only worked a few times & isn't fair on dd1.
DD1 has become very whiney & has started doing a sort of 'pretend' crying to get my attention.I am sure that she's doing it because she sees me trying to calm down dd2 when she cries & wants my attention to.If I ask her why she's crying,she doesn't answer or says that shes sad.
Our walls are very thin & I know that our neighbours can hear us.DH was away all day on Saturday & after 12 hours of trying to entertain them both & listening to one or the other of them crying all day,I lost it & shouted at dd2.She is only a baby & I felt awful-she is trying to tell me something is wrong,but I don't know what it is.
I am going back to work next week & am actually looking forward to it.But I feel guilty that I can't cope with my girls to the extent that I am looking forward to not being with them.
Please someone,tell me that it won't always be like this?
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DD2 cries so much,don't know what to do.
Mirage · 17/10/2005 20:57
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