Has anyone been to a sex party? Killing kittens? Serious question

(27 Posts)
Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 12:22:01

I'm a very regular poster but I have name changed for this as I have relatives on MN. I know that sex parties are an horrible concept for some people - fair enough but we are all different so please don't judge.

I have a very high sex drive but don't have time for a relationship right now. I have not found it very easy to find a man who wants something casual who is not either clingy or abusive. I have heard that sex parties, if you choose the right one can be very safe places to explore what you want to do without fear of getting into the wrong thing with the wrong person.

Most specifically I was wondering if anyone has been to a Killing Kittens party? I like the idea of going to an event where everyone has to dress up nicely.

Perhaps solid gold will be able to help? Any advice?

VixxFace Sun 08-Feb-15 12:29:11

Killing kittens? Is that an euphemism for something.

Sparklingbrook Sun 08-Feb-15 12:31:01

You google then let me know Vixx.

FarelyKnuts Sun 08-Feb-15 12:32:17

Not sure I'd like to go to a sex party where I had to kill kittens. Sounds gruesome

gatewalker Sun 08-Feb-15 12:32:40

Yes, I have -- but with a partner, and not a KK party. I know one of the people who run it, though, and their credentials and integrity are impeccable.

Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 12:34:52

Gatewalker - how was it if you don't mind my asking?

Apparently they call it killing kittens because there is a myth that every time someone masturbates god kills a kitten ��

Notrevealingmyidentity Sun 08-Feb-15 12:36:22

I've heard of them. Watching with interest. Not sure I'd have the courage to go alone though.

gatewalker Sun 08-Feb-15 12:37:58

The part I went to wasn't run by KK, Anonimousy, so I can only vouch for the management, but I'm not able to describe what happens at one.

gatewalker Sun 08-Feb-15 12:38:04

*party

Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 12:42:11

I know what happens and the set up etc but I was wondering whether you felt it was worth it? Or not? I have no shortage of male friends who would go with me haha.

usualsuspect33333333333 Sun 08-Feb-15 12:46:29

Killing kittens sad

Sparklingbrook Sun 08-Feb-15 12:49:46

sad usual

VixxFace Sun 08-Feb-15 12:50:28

Sparkling you do it and tell me! I am squeamish.

Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 12:58:54

I've just explained it above vice

Sparklingbrook Sun 08-Feb-15 13:02:55

Right so no actual killing of kittens. Just Masturbation, at a party. Got it.

Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 13:03:09

Sorry, I did types Vixx - bloody iPad

LaVieBoheme Sun 08-Feb-15 13:07:13

I remembered reading an article about these a while back so looked it back up for you. www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/sep/28/members-only-sex-club-killing-kittens-emma-sayle

gatewalker Sun 08-Feb-15 13:07:31

If you're curious, I'd go. There is absolutely no obligation to join in on anything -- boundaries and consent are non-negotiables at parties like these.

DontKillMyVibe Sun 08-Feb-15 13:07:33

There was a documentary on ch4 recently about sex parties. Maybe have a look on catch up too see if it's still available to watch

DropYourSword Sun 08-Feb-15 13:07:45

The 'killing kittens' meme

Didn't think of this initially. Am now silently judging myself for opening this thread when I thought it might have been something to do with actually killing kittens!

Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 14:04:27

Gosh if they actually harmed animals I would go nowhere near it! Thanks I did see the C4 documentary. I don't know anyone who has been. I know that for KK parties you have to be good looking and have a prestigious job. I fulfil the first criteria but not the second! I'm happy to hear about any other parties also.

gatewalker Sun 08-Feb-15 15:59:51

The other parties that I know of are strictly BDSM, Anonimousy. If you're interested, PM me.

Anonimousy Sun 08-Feb-15 18:14:00

Thanks Gatewalker I have done

Anonimousy Tue 10-Feb-15 17:31:41

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Loveslife01 Mon 31-Oct-16 00:31:34

Hi
Did you ever go to a killing kittens party in the end and if so how did you find it ?

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