Kids make stuff up I know, but the way my DD has discribed this to me makes me worried. I don't want to put a lot of detail here to out us (and have name changed) but I'd really like some advice on what DD's nursery ought to do.
From what DD describes, a member of staff at nursery gave her a clip/slap round the back of the head yesterday when she wasn't co-operating, which is an odd thing imho for a 3yo to invent.
It's not me who does drop off and pick up, but much of what she told us has been relayed to the nursery manager today. We wanted primarily to see if there could be some explanation for what she was saying. The nursery manager apparently straight away described the same situation DD had described (without having been given the context DD had given about the activity they were doing at the time for example) but the manager said she just moved her to get her to do what she was meant to be doing, and that no children are ever hit at the nursery. So I am now wondering what on earth actually happened.
Should the manager automatically be making sure this is properly investigated? (From what both the manager and DD have said, it sounds like the manager herslf was invovled, so presumably someone else at the nursery should investigate!) or do I need to request this?
Although my DD has not been injured, if true this would be a really serious thing wouldn't it? Equally, DD, aged 3, is clearly not hugely reliable as a witness! If I were sure something had happened, and especially if DD had been bruised/marked, I think I'd need to go straight to Ofsted or the local council with it, but in these circumstances I'm not sure? Any advice very gratefully received! I'm clear on what I need to do for my peace of mind wrt DD and childcare, but want to make sure that this is followed up properly.
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PostmistressMcColl · 30/04/2015 21:39
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