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My partner is Nigerian and I'm white British. I am currently 34 weeks pregnant with a son and my partner literally brought up the conversation of circumcision with me by asking where it can be done, if it is done on NHS or privately etc without any discussion. I understood this was a cultural practice in his home country and that it would be a likely conversation but the way he has brought it up has made me unhappy. I asked him why he wants to do it and he said it is better for his health. I have researched it and I understand there does appear to be some health benefits to it. But my biggest issue is that I am putting my son under an unnecessary operation but apparently that's not valid enough reason. I don't feel particularly strongly about it but at the same time I'm pretty angry I wasn't asked for my opinion on it. My son will also be christened which is not something I would have personally done but I know it's important to my partner. Unfortunately, being an atheist it feels like I have to succumb to religious and cultural beliefs because he feels they are more important to him than my non-belief. I find it difficult to argue my case most of the time. Help?!
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Alice1209 · 11/09/2016 06:22
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