Went for 12 week scan late wed afternoon and found baby had died. Absolutely devastatd. Far harder than we ever expected. Thought that we had done the risky 12 weeks and were out the other side. So incredibly difficult to come to terms with, especially as had no bleeding or pain and so no warning at all. Just a nightmare day out of the blue, when we were planning to ring up all our friends to tell them we were pregnant.
And after all the morning sickness.
Have to go for ERPC today and they tell you to expect to wait for 2 hours beforehand in the early pregnancy until, which is same waiting room as antenatal clinic where we booked in last week. Seems so insensitive and so hard.
Woke up at 4am and it all felt so raw all over again.
Only good thing was getting a helium baloon and writing a message to our baby on it and letting it go in the park. Think that helped a little.
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Missed miscarriage at 12 1/2 weeks feels so hard and unfair
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birdseed · 22/06/2007 05:37
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