Didn't know where to put this so i figured this would b best place.im single mum to two children(was married but didnt work out with the dad)have met someone new,we have been together for about 3 years.I live in a rented house and he has his own house but he spends more time at mine.we cant live together because he has mortgage on his house and he would be off the property ladder if he came in my rented house plus he cant afford the rent.i suggested buying a bigger property(his isnt big enough)and he said he couldnt afford to,i would lose my income support and child tax credit he would shurly have to support me and the children from his earnings?i cant work due to ill health but god i feel so guilty!!we have huge rows now were i end up crying cause i cant give him any money (i put clothes in with the weekly shop for the kids and he expects me to pay him back)i already pay for the utility bills ie:gas,water,electric,etc....he pays for the weekly shop which he moans about saying it is too expensive well i thought that was what happpens when you have kids!!!My exhus pays £50 every 2 weeks for the kids but that doesn't pay for their school uniform or shoes.I don't know what to do am i being unreasanable should i grin and bear the pain and go out to work???what are the rights and wrongs when you meet new partner should he pay for them should he be asking for money back when we do weekly shop and i put some items of clothing in there?I still owe him about £200 from things i have asked him to pay for as i needed them and as long as i paid him back thats ok but how do i pay him back????please please can someone give me advice HELP!!!!!!!
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notnuftime · 30/04/2007 13:38
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