DH has made it very clear that he totally disapproves of smacking and before separation his exW was on the same page as him.
The dsc moved with their mother to live with her partner a couple of years ago and it came to light that he "hit" (his words) his own children in front of the dsc and used the threat of violence as a means of controlling the dsc. DH has made it very clear that he disapproves of this method and that he absolutely does not want his children to be punished in this way.
DSS kicked his mother's dog (he said that the partner does it when the dog barks) and her partner smacked him and then kicked him. DH is absolutely fuming but is being told there is nothing he can do about it - his exW and her partner have said that they will continue to use threats of and actual violence to control the dsc.
We have been combing through the Internet trying to find a decisive guideline on smacking children that one has no parental responsibility for (it is only the partner who does it) and if it is worth us stretching our already strained finances in order to get this stopped.
Any constructive advice as to how DH can manage this situation would be hugely appreciated.
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Asteria36 · 07/11/2015 17:10
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