Dear all,
Please may I have some help and advice regarding a contact application to see two children, ages 3 and 5 by their father. Daughter alleged SA (hope you understand that, but can't say too much as proceedings still ongoing) There has been no contact for 3 years. He has PR for daughter, but not son. Judge denied PR at last directions hearing and name change for son. Basically, not enough evidence, or proof, and expert psych, on father side, didn't believe daughter. Trying for PAS. SW, expert paed (since capitulated on reading psych report, and now it appears CAFCASS officer believe daughter, however, no findings were made. CAFCASS lovely lady said she can't disagree with findings because it would be comtempt of court??? Is that true? Daughter said she didn't want to 'see him' when visited by CAFCASS, Indirect contact has been recommended, not sure about 'ordered' to start with, Daughter said she doesn't even want to see that. A family assitance order has been put in place.
What exactly is that? will it help applicant or daughter? Back to court early next year. Barrister advised me (legally aided) that I have to 'come on board' or risk loosing the children due to emotioal harm. Will that happen?
Of course I have accepted that recommendation, if not, will I be in comtempt of court? Can I disagree with it?
Will daughter really be listened to if indirect contact doesn't go well? Are the two planned sessions just to see her reacion? Should I rock the boat by asking the CAFCASS lady to say what she really thinks to the court, or just keep my mouth shut and see what happens?
Thanks you in advance for any advice
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philosowatzit · 15/12/2011 12:59
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