I'd like to know if I'm just being a bit sensitive, or whether its not just me and in fact you all have had similar experiences!
So I had 4dc with eh. My eldest is now 15. Then I met new h, who had his own dc and we decided to have one together. After an mc and a few years later I was delighted. However onlookers were so rude and I think it hasn't helped me bond. I haven't had this experience before. I have one extra child and suddenly I'm a bit of an outcast....I would add it is vastly easier these days than when I had 3 tiny dc under 4 and an h who commuted to the city daily.
The reaction if I mentioned the mc to anyone was, oh well it's natures way of telling you've had your family. And probably for the best dear.
Not mine but some of dhs friends have been quite rude about us having our baby. He's nearly 2 now. They don't need to get their judgey pants on as we earn enough to support them all. We don't claim benefits, we have a big enough house etc.... We have debated having another but I dread what everyone will say. !!!
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sadsong · 08/07/2013 10:15
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