We have a 7 week old, beautiful little boy.
I have a caring and supportive partner too....However, I am finding it hard to adjust to being a mom!
I have never been a particularly broody person and other peoples babies do nothing for me, but i was convinced that when we had our own it would be different. As i said, I am not really a 'baby' person, but thought this would be totally different once we had our own
It is and it isn't - I know that I love him to bits and feel very protective and caring towards him, but sometimes feel somthing is missing within me emotionally.
It took the first few weeks before I started enoying him due to complete lack of sleep and an overwelming feeling just after he was born (all normal, I know)
I think the main issue is the adjustment to this new life. I run a business which I am not really missing at the moment anywya(!) but find it difficult trying to constantly find things to do to settle/keep him happy. I like to fill my days with stimulating things, so am also on the look out for suggestions of things we can do together to keep him happy and me sane!.
I find it difficult that my other half goes out to work and doesn't always have the time/energy to tend to the little one, so it mainly falls to me to settle/feed/keep him happy.....I know this is how it is, i can here you all thinking!, but i'm just finding it hard.
I don't feel I can admit this to my friends and family, which is ridiculaous as they are all really fantastic and supportive, but sometimes I feel a little cold/distant towards our son and I am not sure why and feel ashamed about it.
I am worried that as we had fertility problems and then 2 miscarriages, I got pregnant just to prove that I could carry a baby to full term, and didn't really consider the other side of it! I hate myself for thinking this, but I am simply being honest.
I am not depressed - just a little miserable
help!
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generally feeling a bit stuck/blue/not sure!?
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ladypop · 18/03/2010 09:36
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