has my ex got a mental heath issue please help.

[kurves]

my boyfriend has been under alot of stress lately and has started to become aggressive towards me for no reason and seem to feel that he cannot trust me cause i will do something to him. what confuses me is that he will be aggressive to me one minute then it will be like nothing has happened.i feel that he is in the middle of a break down at times he will lock his phone off for days and no one would be able to contact him or he will just ignore my calls . If you try to talk to him he shuts down. he has really bad mood swings and can switch in a instant. for example one day he called me and said that we are finished. then i said that i would come to talk to him about it then when i got there it was like nothing has happened. He seems to think that i am out to get him i know this all sounds messed up but its been so bad now we are not together have not spoken to him for a couple days i wonder if he was really OK.he has had times when he has been in tears and times when he just goes quiet. He is 27 years old but seems like 16 .but the abuse became too much and when i speak to hoim about it he seems to think it is ok.

[Snorbs]

He may do. Or he may have an alcohol/drug problem that you're not aware of. Or possibly he's just self-centered arse. Whatever the motives, his behaviour sounds appalling and getting worse.

His problems are his to deal with. Your responsibility is to keep yourself safe. Do you know any of his friends/family who could check on him to put your mind at rest?

[flakecake]

Hi Kurves,

It does sound like he has a problem...and as well as being there for him please protect yourself if you need too. Maybe he needs to go and see a professional? As Snorbs said, there maybe something happening that you do not know about.

[kurves]

i left him i8 decided that he was just plain evil and a abuser so he is history. Found out that he beat his last girl friend up and she had to flee so he has major issues and my kids do not need that i am so happy now i had a lucky escape thanks girls.So happy i am not his next victim spoke to his mother and she also wonders if he is ill. I feel so much better and every time i think to call him i think of how wicked he was to me and that puts me off he did try to call but i ignored the call he has not called back so he has got the message.

[Snorbs]

Good for you!