When I was 16 I was raped and became pregnant. I was too terrified and confused to tell anyone and ended up having my little girl by myself. I had a mad plan of abandoning her and phing the police to say what I'd done. Very sadly she was still born. I had no idea what to do and eventually hid her and never talked about it again.
When I was in my late 20s I became pregnant again thi time as part of a lovin and meaningful relationship. At this stage I found the courage to tell my doctor about my first baby. Her response was to report me to the police. Next thing I knew they were on my doorstep with social services threatening to arrest me for mursder and take my baby at birth. They never talked to me before saying this, they never tried to find out my side of the story they just frightend the hell out of me at 6 months pregnatnt. The rest of the pregancy was a nightmare they wouldn't leave me alone, forced me to see psychiatrists, turned up when I was in labour and kept making loud comments about needing to make sure i didnt strangle my baby, told my mum who knew nothing about what happned and told her who raped me. thanks to them she and my brother didn't talk to me for 2 years and our relatinoship is still tense. My partner thank God stood by me or I doubt I'd either have my baby or be alive now.
They didn't take my lovely little girl (now 5) and they didn't arrest me but there were so many questions and interviews and meetings and accusations.
I thought I'd got over it all but the last few weeks I'm jumping out of my skin when I har the doorbell, frightend to sleep at night, frightend to wake up in the morning, having endless nightmares that they have come back and horredous and real flashbacks to what they did to me at the time.
I've namechanged for obvious reasons. I am so unhappy and after what the doctor did to me I will never go back to them a bout a mental health issue not ever ever ever.
Sorry I feel like I can't go on but i have to for my little girl. I can't bear these flashbacks I am so scared of myself.
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getting horrendous flashbacks (sorry very long)
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flashbackgirl · 22/07/2009 11:10
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