Hi
I am due to have my first session tomorrow morning about what is probably a ridiculous situation.
2 years ago I started trying for a baby and was very excited at the prospect of a second dc.
I never expected it to be plain sailing as I had just gone 37 at the time and I was aware that early menopause was in my family between the ages of 39 and 40.
I already have one child and always wanted another but my dp was not at all keen and it was a difficult subject to broach with him.
I did manage to bring him round on this and we started ttc.
Now two years down the line without success I am now going through an early menopause without any hope now of having another child.
I just cannot get over the loss of another dc and feel hurt and heartbroken.
My feelings about this have become out of control and have taken over my life.
At the same time I feel pathetic for been so down about this and I am worried that this counsillor will not understand especially a male I just don,t feel comfortable talking to him about this.
What the hell do I say.
All that I know is that I feel truly devastated to the core and I feel as though my dp has not got a clue how I feel as he brushes me off all of the time saying its no big deal, and now I feel resentment to him and feel that he has become part of the problem.
One of the biggest things going on in my head is that I should have started ttc earlier and have brought this misery on myself.
Do you think my counsillor will understand or am I going to look a complete loon.
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How am I going to talk to a male counsellor about this
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